Many men tend to think of CFNM fantasies as humiliating. Well, certainly they are, but not in the conventional use of the term. There’s nothing particularly degrading about being completely naked in the presence of a woman (or women) who just so happen to be fully clothed. It might be somewhat embarrassing, but I’d venture so far as to say it’s more humbling than outright humiliating.
I think that’s why so many men are drawn to this fantasy. It’s a very mild humiliation, if, indeed, it’s really humiliation at all.
Regardless, we certainly can’t forget that it’s also pretty arousing as well, can we?
Some Mistresses like to order their slaves to strip when they’re in the mood for a clothed female naked male fantasy. And, yes, I suppose that’s the easy way to do it, right? You just sit back and wait for your slave to do the job of exposing himself to you. Admittedly, I certainly enjoy the show.
But I want to let you in on a little secret.
Telling a female to strip and putting the task in her hands would be more humbling because women would feel less guilt, so to speak, if the job were taken out of their hands. It is my opinion that they would feel less humbled if someone else removed their clothes for them because, in their minds, they believe that since they had no choice, they can’t be held responsible for their own actions.
Men, on the other hand. . . well, it works a little differently for them. If a man is ordered to take off his own clothes, he still retains a little control over the situation in his mind. Therefore, being told to strip is not as humbling to a man as to a woman. In order to humble a man the most, you have to remove all sense of control from him by taking his clothes away yourself.
Sure, it’s a little more difficult and time-consuming, but it makes for a much more humble slave in the end.
To me, that’s what CFNM is all about. It’s not so much about humiliation as it is humbling a slave before his owner. The humiliation part comes later, if I want to engage in small penis humiliation or one of the other various forms of humiliation I enjoy dishing out.
But I’ll tell you another secret. Some of the time, when I strip you naked, I just want to admire the beautiful masculine form. You can choose to be humiliated by that or not.